Selecting the right life companion

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One of the most important choice in life is to accept Jesus as Savior, the second major option is to marry or not. choosing the right life companion, your marriage will be like in heaven as well, otherwise, it will pain like hell.
Singapore, four pairs of each half with a pair of divorce, the marriage of importance in the business, financial, house, education, After getting very late age of marriage, marriage really so terrible, people do not want to experience life? or marriage is a blessing?
marriage is established by God I believe that marriage is good
incomparable God established from the outset of marriage, Genesis Chapter 18: The Lord God said: the wealth of the world, but also very healthy, everything is perfect except for one thing - Adam alone, very lonely.
God do not know that Eve came, the devil will go to test her? God Do not know Eve would fall into temptation, but by all mankind because of Adam, the curse of sin? God of course knows, He knows to create a woman is an adventure, but God is more concerned about the character of Adam, not comfort.
develop character〗 〖marriage
people are often lonely because the build walls instead of bridges, a character who will build bridges of communication with others,UGG boots cheap, not just live for themselves, care about others, to share with others, listen, love and forgiveness.
If Adam alone, he need to forgive others? he needs to protect the others? he needs to supply others? do not. Adam could have been all alone to enjoy the comfort and wealth, but God care more about his character, rather than a comfortable life .
Adam to train men to marry all the character of the others, so marriage is God-given blessing, the solid sound of the marriage, will experience the satisfaction and joy, but most importantly, a good marriage can develop character and make you a man after God own heart, so that you grow spiritually, when Jesus comes again, can make a beautiful bride 祂.
responsibility 
mate choice on lifelong companion I want to Let me talk about one thing, that God does not choose life partner for you. He knows who is best for you, but the final choice is yours, God has the responsibility of all to you mate, not only because a prophecy , just like someone getting married, we do not underestimate the importance of prophecy, but it is not God's way.
eighteen Proverbs Chapter 22: Who find it? you. God will guide you and show you, you have to read the Bible, but the final choice in your hands, do not go to had a single lifetime.
myth of love < br> how do you know who is the right partner? most people's view of love, often childish immaturity, I want to share the love of three deadly myth, the myth that we hold the wrong idea about love, not wise spouse.
first myth: true love conquers all
have love on the line, as long as we love each other, marriage will be happy. as long as I love him, his drinking does not matter, he is always criticizing me does not matter he idle, sleeping around ... no, I will always love him just like that love conquers all.
we see Isaac and Rebekah's marriage: love at first sight, is simply perfect for each other, both sides parents agreed that all conditions have a happy marriage, but their marriage happy? Isaac, Rebekah was handed over to a king as concubines, Rebekah abetting his son lying on his father, ruined a good home.
so light there is romantic love, can not guarantee a happy marriage. If you believe this myth,Discount UGG boots, the first, you do not seriously deal with relationship issues, as long as love, conflict and differences to strike does not matter! second When the fading of love, more love if you think that this relationship can be saved, but the reality is, the light has feelings of love can not make lasting, but also the right to each other, and the determination of commitment.
second Myth:
love at first sight is how do you know what he was? I just know it! when my he (she) appears, I will know. the danger of this myth: the first impression is not necessarily to continue. many couples think that a good first impression, the future will be happy feelings, but because there is no reality, emotions or go elsewhere.
second danger is that you may miss the love last a really long . many people .
third danger is that sometimes you think you love someone,cheap UGG boots, love is only one image only. My boyfriend is a doctor and my girlfriend are in good shape ... you did not even notice the other party is What a man, his performance might be better, but poor character, you fall in love with is his image.
third myth: the perfect spouse can satisfy you a lot of people do not consciously want
spouse able to meet all his needs, that as long as finding the perfect spouse, can be satisfied in all respects.
not make you love anything and everything, and love to give and share. choosing the right partner, you can meet many needs , but not all needs. If you feel the emptiness before marriage, marriage will still be empty. In fact, the vacancy in the human mind, only by the Holy Spirit in charge of their lives in order to be filled with the Holy Spirit.
〖fruitless eight 〗
a feeling that you care about each other more
you in a relationship, but not to determine each other's ideas; you think you are right, he seems to disagree; he does not miss him when you when you are not his if no difference, What does this mean?
feelings,UGGs, there will be the turn of the phenomenon, the two take turns playing the role of pursuing and being pursued; but if one party is always an suitors, such feelings are not sound, long continue, you will love hungry, you will feel controlled by the other side, you will feel angry, cheated and suffering.
Second, you love each other's potential
you love each other's potential, rather than the other really, the way you love each other's future look, he is not your partner, but the object of your transformation.
Each time we make pre-marital counseling will be asked if the other party fifty years will not change, you will be satisfied? If you always wanted to change the other, then they would feel more satisfied, it is not love, but gambling as a bet with both sides happy.